WANTING THE TRUE OR WANTING TO BE RIGHT WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT???

I find it funny how people talk shit about other people not really know what the hell they talking about... Unless you was there yourself how the hell would you know what really going on?? Speaking about the next man/woman business and you are/was not there to see for yourself is so damn stupid. Just because you hear he/she say shit about someone do not mean it is true. The same people you get your info from are talking shit about your ass and if you think they are not you are walking around with blinders on.
        I also find it sad how many people want to believe the negative shit just so they can feel good about themselves... You needing to hear bad stuff about other people to make yourself feel good WHAT DO THAT SAY ABOUT YOU AS A PERSON?????. There are always many sides to a story ....WHAT PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT HAPPEN,  WHAT PEOPLE HOPED  THAT HAPPENED , WHAT PEOPLE WANTED TO HAVE HAPPENED  AND THEN THE TRUTH .... Sad how people give less then a fuck about the truth because how would it make them seem right??SMFH...