Taking Care Of Her Man Or Being There For Her Man? Do You Know The Differance?

I find it so damn funny when some people say I would never take care of a man...I could never do that.. Oh really sweetie do you even know what is to be there for your man I mean truly be there for your man???. It do not make you weak or a fool to do so..When you and your man have an agreement about how things will work in your relationship then what is the problem..
Too many people on the out side looking in do not have a damn clue what is going on to make judgement about it. If he is giving  her what she needs and want who the hell are you to judge.  Most of the women that make the statement I would never take care of a man, Are the same ones who want a man to take care of the I find that funny.
       A person doing their share in the relationship do not always mean them bring home a check and if that is how you see  a relationship then I feel sorry for you. If your husband lost his job tomorrow and did not get work for awhile leaving you to bring home the bacon you going to leave him. Even when he is  home with the kids cooking,clean tending to the kids and the whole nine and still giving you lovin ....Still never  could be you? Still you would never?.....  We let what others think about us turn things into something they are not just to please them..When the only people you should care about pleasing is God,your kids if you have them, you and your mate.
           Doing for your mate when they are doing and giving you what you need and want from the relationship there is nothing wrong with that. Stop trying to please others and you will be much happier in your life.

                                                                    By Tishasweetcandy aka DysirableDiva