Friday, November 6, 2015

Stop Using Your Child Like Chess Pieces

I find it funny how people complain that they can not find a relationship.
Women saying all men are dogs and Men saying all females are gold diggers.
Yet when it comes to dealing with each other in a relationship we teach our kids to
to disrespect each other, When we do not get our way we use the kids to punish
each other not taking it into account that we are also hurting the child.
    So how is it you want a good man/woman yet you treat him or her like  children?
When you use your child as an object to punish your ex you are teaching them this is
how you deal with relationships. This is so sad because this child had nothing to do with what
happen in the relationship they just happen to be a product of it. Working together and showing one another respect even when you are not  sleeping together is called being adults.
     Why would you want someone who no longer wants you... Take it as their loss and find someone who will treat you like the king or queen you are. Our children are not chess pieces to be played when ever your feel the need so stop using them as such. You don't want to be in a relationship with someone who play games, So why teach your child that you need to play games to get their way in a relationship??...
    
By. Laticha Blackburn aka Tishasweetcandy 11/6/2015