Monday, June 29, 2015

Websites are helping people bully.

Sad that people are using website to bully other people.
Now a days if someone do not like someone they can bully them and not even show it was them that done it. If you have a account on a page where other people can get your page deleted then you can be available website bullied. Why are websites giving people this kind of power over other lives???..  I thought if you did something wrong in the website eyes that when you would be removed not because some haters made false claims by pushing the report button.
         If someone do not like your look or now you speak or any dumb reason they can come up with they are given the power to remove you. Nine times out of ten they st just being a ASS. This needs to be changed giving the keys to a ten year old just because you do not feel like driving would be crazy... So why give power to grown ass people who are acting like ten year old??.




                                       Laticha Blackburn aka Tishasweetcandy  June 29,2015

Friday, June 5, 2015

Taking Care Of Her Man Or Being There For Her Man? Do You Know The Differance?

I find it so damn funny when some people say I would never take care of a man...I could never do that.. Oh really sweetie do you even know what is to be there for your man I mean truly be there for your man???. It do not make you weak or a fool to do so..When you and your man have an agreement about how things will work in your relationship then what is the problem..
Too many people on the out side looking in do not have a damn clue what is going on to make judgement about it. If he is giving  her what she needs and want who the hell are you to judge.  Most of the women that make the statement I would never take care of a man, Are the same ones who want a man to take care of the I find that funny.
       A person doing their share in the relationship do not always mean them bring home a check and if that is how you see  a relationship then I feel sorry for you. If your husband lost his job tomorrow and did not get work for awhile leaving you to bring home the bacon you going to leave him. Even when he is  home with the kids cooking,clean tending to the kids and the whole nine and still giving you lovin ....Still never  could be you? Still you would never?.....  We let what others think about us turn things into something they are not just to please them..When the only people you should care about pleasing is God,your kids if you have them, you and your mate.
           Doing for your mate when they are doing and giving you what you need and want from the relationship there is nothing wrong with that. Stop trying to please others and you will be much happier in your life.

                                                                    By Tishasweetcandy aka DysirableDiva

Monday, June 1, 2015

WANTING THE TRUE OR WANTING TO BE RIGHT WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT???

I find it funny how people talk shit about other people not really know what the hell they talking about... Unless you was there yourself how the hell would you know what really going on?? Speaking about the next man/woman business and you are/was not there to see for yourself is so damn stupid. Just because you hear he/she say shit about someone do not mean it is true. The same people you get your info from are talking shit about your ass and if you think they are not you are walking around with blinders on.
        I also find it sad how many people want to believe the negative shit just so they can feel good about themselves... You needing to hear bad stuff about other people to make yourself feel good WHAT DO THAT SAY ABOUT YOU AS A PERSON?????. There are always many sides to a story ....WHAT PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT HAPPEN,  WHAT PEOPLE HOPED  THAT HAPPENED , WHAT PEOPLE WANTED TO HAVE HAPPENED  AND THEN THE TRUTH .... Sad how people give less then a fuck about the truth because how would it make them seem right??SMFH...

Is Your Negativity Really Working For You

I never can understand how people who go around putting others down think... What the hell is your negativity getting you??? Is it putting money in your pocket? Is it helping your be a better person not only for your self but for the people you love??... Who wants to be around someone who feel the need to spread pain and hurt to make themselves look better in other people eyes. When someone sit around me talking negative shit about someone my first thought is well damn as soon as I do something this person do not like they will do the some to me... No way in hell would I look at someone who dose this as someone I could look up to much less be around. Life is to short to not want to be happy and to have like mined people around you. I feel sorry for these people because they do not realize what they are really doing to themselves and that is so sad. What you put out there is what you get back ten times over...put negative you get negative....