I never understood why females use their kids to get back at their Ex. Not letting them see them or spend time with them or even talk to them on the phone. Who do you think you are hurting really??? Your child is the one paying the price for something they had nothing to do with. Do not get me wrong but their are also some fathers who have their children and do the same thing but more so it is the female.
What went wrong in your relationship had nothing to do with your child and using them like chess pieces is wrong. If he did something wrong to the child or he beat on you I could understand some can be assholes. Those that want to see their child spend time with their child and your only reason to say no is because he cheated on you when you was together is dead wrong. If a father is doing the best he can money wise and you know in your heart that he really loves his kids why not let him see his child???...
A lot of kids grow up being misinformed about their fathers because the mother held on to the angry she had about something that happen in the relationship. You do not have to be in a relationship with him for him to be a father to his child... Why rob your child of his love because you can no longer can have it??....Do you even realize you giving your son/daughter a messed up view of how relationships go.. You do not get your way so you punish is that what you really want your son/daughter to take into their future relationships???..
You can still be hurt or mad upset about what ever he may have done to wrong you. That is the point it was done to you not your child and making it seem as it was is crazy. We has adult get into adult relationships but when things go wrong with it can act like little kids... We should stop this behavior we are grow ups when we laid down and had that kid so why not continue to act one... Leave the child out of the romantic or lact there of the relationship and and put the adult in the parent part of your relationship when dealing with your Ex.....
By,Tishasweetcandy aka Dysirable Diva 4/7/2015
What went wrong in your relationship had nothing to do with your child and using them like chess pieces is wrong. If he did something wrong to the child or he beat on you I could understand some can be assholes. Those that want to see their child spend time with their child and your only reason to say no is because he cheated on you when you was together is dead wrong. If a father is doing the best he can money wise and you know in your heart that he really loves his kids why not let him see his child???...
You can still be hurt or mad upset about what ever he may have done to wrong you. That is the point it was done to you not your child and making it seem as it was is crazy. We has adult get into adult relationships but when things go wrong with it can act like little kids... We should stop this behavior we are grow ups when we laid down and had that kid so why not continue to act one... Leave the child out of the romantic or lact there of the relationship and and put the adult in the parent part of your relationship when dealing with your Ex.....
By,Tishasweetcandy aka Dysirable Diva 4/7/2015
