Monday, June 1, 2015

Is Your Negativity Really Working For You

I never can understand how people who go around putting others down think... What the hell is your negativity getting you??? Is it putting money in your pocket? Is it helping your be a better person not only for your self but for the people you love??... Who wants to be around someone who feel the need to spread pain and hurt to make themselves look better in other people eyes. When someone sit around me talking negative shit about someone my first thought is well damn as soon as I do something this person do not like they will do the some to me... No way in hell would I look at someone who dose this as someone I could look up to much less be around. Life is to short to not want to be happy and to have like mined people around you. I feel sorry for these people because they do not realize what they are really doing to themselves and that is so sad. What you put out there is what you get back ten times over...put negative you get negative....

Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Woman who use their children to get back at their Ex..

I never understood why females use their kids to get back at their Ex. Not letting them see them or spend time with them or even talk to them on the phone. Who do you think you are hurting really??? Your child is the one paying the price for something they had nothing to do with. Do not get me wrong but their are also some fathers who have their children and do the same thing but more so it is the female.
                What went wrong in your relationship had nothing to do with your child and using them like chess pieces is wrong. If he did something wrong to the child or he beat on you I could understand some can be assholes. Those that want to see their child spend time with their child and your only reason to say no is because he cheated on you when you was together is dead wrong. If a father is doing the best he can money wise and you know in your heart that he really loves his kids why not let him see his child???...
           A lot of kids grow up being misinformed  about their fathers because the mother held on to the angry she had about something that happen in the relationship. You do not have to be in a relationship with him for him to be a father to his child... Why rob your child of his love because you can no longer can have it??....Do you even realize you giving your son/daughter a messed up view of how relationships go.. You do not get your way so you punish is that what you really want your son/daughter to take into their future relationships???..
          You can still be hurt or mad upset about what ever he may have done to wrong you. That is the point it was done to you not your child and making it seem as it was is crazy. We has adult get into adult relationships but when things go wrong with it can act like little kids... We should stop this behavior  we are grow ups when we laid down and had that kid so why not continue to act one... Leave the child out of the romantic or lact there of the relationship and and put the adult in the parent part of your relationship when dealing with your Ex.....

                                                                                            By,Tishasweetcandy aka Dysirable Diva 4/7/2015

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Taking Rejection With Class Or Do You Become A Ass?

Why is it when a female reject some men he thinks that is a open door for him to disrespect her. Calling her out side her name and trying to hurt he feelings only reaffirm that she was right for not dealing with you in the first place. So why act like a kid who do not get their way so they start showing their ass. You would not want someone calling a female member of your family out their name would you? So remember that this female is someones daughter.Taking it like a gentlemen and saying to yourself her lost may make her rethink thoughts on you.Who knows if you try again at a other time you may get a yes. Giving her respect no matter what is always a good look.
                                                                                 By Tishasweetcandy Ceo of Dysirable Diva

Is There A New Age Chasing Your Co-Worker Around The Desk In Adult Industry?

You should work with someone because they bring table what you are looking to better business profits. Not on the notion that this person is going to be your man/woman, If this is who you are or how you come off  then in no way should you get upset when someone questions your integrity.
        Those coming into the adult entertainment looking for their next lay also make it hard on
the ones who are really about their business.Making money and achieving the goals they need and want to achieve to move them forward. Yes this is a sex base industry but that is the point INDUSTRY which means is the production of a good or service within an economy. 
       In short business too many people seem to forget this very important fact. So if a person is in a relationship or not should not matter. What is counts is can this person get the job done and bring the profits that you are looking for.
     Adult one of the main words of the business so why can one not act as such. One would make more money and have less bullshit to deal with if one would keep this in mind.
                                                                                                           
                                                                                        By Tishasweetcandy CEO of Dysirable Diva

                                       

Monday, August 25, 2014

Once again taking the negativity out of a word....WHORE. Woman's Healthy Outlook Regarding Expenses. By Tishasweetcandy.  8/26/2014

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

He is a man

He is a man in every sense of the word
I lay next to him and run my finger tips
a long the outlines of his body
I watch him breath in the troubles of the world
and out the answers that makes things better
He is a man in every sense of the word
with one touch  he can make you feel like
a little school girl on the play ground after
her first kiss.
Then make you feel like the queen of everything that you
touch must of all him.
His loving takes you place no story book could
He dose magic and do not even realize it
turns you into
a homemaker
a mother
a wife
a friend
a lover
and many more just with three words I Love You.
He is a man in every sense of the word
His body it turns your emotions upside down
but yet you love every moment of it.
He is a king and should be treated as one
Although the world dose not allow him to
sit On the throne like he should
You should not never let him forget
He is a man in every sense of the word
                                                          Laticha Blackurn
                                              10/9/2012 time 10:45pm